Relationship advice for men and women is not a simple thing. Every person who has been through a relationship or a string of relationships becomes a self proclaimed expert. And since we are seeking answers so desperately, we tend to go by the word of these people and start living a life which makes you look at people with those opinions in our heads. So what happens when Love at first sight happens, or what do you do when you actually feel a strong connect for someone you know.
Some call it like a bolt of lightning, some say its love at first sight, some also say ‘it was meant to be’. The team at RYR went on an extensive research on spiritual grounds this time to understand the meaning of Destiny, in Love” and here are excerpts of all that we found. The concept of feeling like you know someone right at the moment you saw them, the feeling of being made-for-each-other. Many spiritual leaders call this ‘Soulmate’. A soul mate is technically that soul-contract you made with a person in another life and as per your contract/promise in this lifetime too you need to unite and make your stronger than ever before. Only finding each other will make you both complete. This soul has waited for you for all these years, in your heart and soul you truly accept each other.
All of this indeed sounded like a load of junk to us too, but if you believe in a higher power like a reason besides science, as to why the sun rises each day, why we are born and how everything comes around to where it started then this will make sense to you too. It’s not about God or anything religious it is about being accepting towards something that has a bigger meaning. If you can accept that concept then understanding your life as a predetermined journey will become a lot easier. Your soul mate just like you is on a journey that leads to you. Most of these journeys are more inward than destination based. And if you may want to search something follow the famous quote by Rumi: Do not look for love; look instead, for the one looking for love. Someone somewhere is made for everyone and they are said to come our way only when we are at complete peace with ourselves and doing what we are supposed to be doing.
Explained: Each of us have a predetermined soul path, which is designed as per our soul-contract. On that path we are meant to love and respect ourselves and do all the things that would keep us happy, while at it we will cross paths with our soul mate. Everything that happens according to this theory has a reason that takes you or keeps you on the right track. Meeting people who we fall in love with and then suffer broken relationships can also be a way to get you back on the determined path. Too many of us settle for Mr. Right now instead of waiting for Mr. Right meaning to say not each one of us finds our soul mate in every life we live. When you do meet your soulmate however it feels like the last piece of the puzzle was finally found and joined in. You feel complete and both of you can now move onwards to a bigger purpose.
In short if there are no consequences and the theories we stumbled upon are true then from now onwards lets vow to take on every coincidence as a new adventure. Let’s see to it that no matter how wrecked we might be out of our previous relationships we are now one step closer to finding the Love that is destined for us. We are one day closer to finding our Soul mate and being complete. Only if you believe, you can make it happen.
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