Today’s women can not understand how she being married and having kids can affect her profesional life, because she don’t know the value of her kids, or of her time for her kids. It’s not her fault. She has been taught like that from her childhood, like a boy. That she is equal and marrige doesn’t really change any thing in her life, just like a boy. Only home or city is changed. She isn’t taught about how her child needs her in every stage of life. How everyone around her would be there to judge her or to guide her for her “New Responsibilities”.
You need to have time to deal with your children’s issue as well, you can’t say to them that, “just because you are tiny you can’t have more important issues then me or then the ones I’m handling right now, hop out n let me be busy”. We get it and society gets it that you want to be a working and independent feminist women, but do not forget to be your real caring and nurturing soul. Because you are the ones who will teach your child how to behave, act in crises, you will tell them what is crisses, teach them, identify it. Just like your parents did. If you are not there when the child returns from school to talk about child’s life, you need to be there in the night to make him talk to you about life. Because in those time you teach them those lessons, making dinner is not assuring that he is having a life. It’s you who have to be active, because when child tries, you often push them away, so its you who would have to make the move, until the child moves. You are the nurturing creature of life, don’t forget it by losing it in to the race of the life.